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No, I dont want a girl thanks

I’ve been asked this many times, especially once someone knows I wont be having more kids. “didn’t you want to try for a girl?”

Well, frankly… NO.

I wanted boys. Nothing against girls, and of course I would have been happy no matter what however, I am completely content with my boys. I’m happy being a boy momma. I don’t know why its so hard for some to wrap their heads around the fact that not everyone wants both sexes of babies. Not all moms want the little girl to dress up in pink dresses and bows. I have friends that have faced the same question. I truly don’t get the issue….

It doesn’t make me or anyone else a bad mother or parent because I want one over the other. Its just how we feel! Like I said, if we had a girl we both would have been happy, but truthfully, two boys is enough!

I enjoy the mud, and trucks and dinos and all things boys! My husband is happy and so am I. So next time, if you feel the need to ask, just don’t. Remember not everyone feels the same as you and that is okay!


Hey All! I'm Alex! I'm a momma to two toddler boys and a wife to my Navy love. I'm a Mental Health Advocate, DIY Crafter, and a stay at home mom/wife. I hope you enjoy my stories and posts. Feel free to email me at any time.

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